Adekunbi Adebiyi

You are in our thoughts always 

I've spent almost two years, stopping by often and reading about you, wishing I had met u just once, ur life and death has pushed a lot of basic truths into me, its all brief and its all over. I have more to write but no words to just wanted you to know I'm different today. Thanks for living and loving. Oh ND I know u're with the big G up there ryt? Save me a good spot by the angel on the piano, and when we all get to heaven I'm so going to famzz with u ehn, u hv no idea o. I love you Kunbi ND I bless God for you. God shows ur family the good.

:) THINKING BOUT YOU!!!

Went to your building at work last week and saw your still empty desk.

You are definitely running the show in a much better place......RIP Kunbi.  

'What do u think life is...like a bed of roses or is it like a tennis game where the ball is in ur court.Do u belive in life after death, or r u the type that is too afraid to talk about death...'
This was Kunbi's thought which I have now bought. I'm reading a book now on Heaven is so Real which I got from someone I shared KIA's story with. Kunbs, you have made me more conscious of this truth than ever before. Thank you, Kunbi. WE LOVE YOU!

You are always on mind a day has not passed without me remembering you. CD days have literally not been the same. Miss you dearly.

I keep waiting for this to get easier. Such a gaping hole you've left in my heart, Kunbs. How do I feel better? What should I do? I stare at my wristband and ask myself how this is happening. I'm horrible at this. Please ask God to help me, Kunbi. Please.

I miss you. 

Kunbiiiii, 

Thank you for being such a great friend! I think that just summarises what you were to me.
You were sooo chilled, never boasting despite how blessed you were, always loving and gentle.
I won't list all the kind gestures you extended to me but between you and I we know what they were and I am very grateful. 

Surely you are resting with the Lord. 

Everytime I come on here I'm amazed at how many ppl have visited the site and how many lives you have touched. I know that was your passion. I recall the facebook picture that you tagged us on and encouraged us all to share our testimonies in Christ so that people who read them would be blessed and turn to Christ....and when I didn't share mine you pestered me until I did.

Kunbiii, I pray that your life and death does just that.

Your sudden passing challenges me spiritually and propels me to draw nearer to God. I remember when I came to Lagos for your bday and you wanted us to go to Calabar. I was so afraid of all the mess that was happening in Nigeria re BH and thought the airlines were dodgy but you reassured me that was no way to live my life...in fear. I am working on it K.

We shall meet again by His special grace...
Meet-ers.

Love you!!!!
xxx  

 

KUNBIIIIII!!!!!!!!

SOOOO many things I ddnt say to YOU...:(

I know you probably know what they are but one thing I should say is THANKYOU for everythng...

So I was out with Relly and Dapo yesterday, Dapo got hungry and suggested going to Vapiano. The moment I heard the name my heart fell. I went anyway. I kept going over the bbm you sent saying "wana try this famous Vapiano(sp)". It made me wish for the 100000000th time, so, so badly I'd just gone with you last month. I wished so hard, Kunbs.

I've said it soo many times but I'm sorry I didn't. Its been such a huge regret for me because that was the last thing you asked me to do with you and in my usual way, I didn't. God gave me this chance to say goodbye and I didn't take it. I keep kicking myself.

I've decided to stop that though, because really, who needs Vapiano when you have heaven, right? Plus I know you know I love you even though my plan-stabbing ways didn't show it x_x I miss you already x

Death; hard-hearted and short-sighted
A mirage hope that brings miseries
wonder hope that cause bitter mope
the wise says you're veritable
the old claims you're veritable
because you hate immortality

Claimed by you are heroes
slained by you are carriers of prodigy
The young acclaimed you inexplicable
The old affirmed you despicable
Because your virus is virulent
And your sting is venomous
What are great man you are!

But you're such a coward!!
hiding ease but dealing great
turbulent water that cause great ripples
you can cover your face in shame
Because you are such a dummy

How dared you death!
How can you take essence away
you lack sence to take essence
The essence stays on
But your memory fades away
Death! how illusion are you? 

By Pst Hulston Omare
The dominion House
Nottingham
UK 

Hi Adekunbi,

Keep resting with our Lord in Heaven. I still can't control the tears rolling through my eyes. Its hard to believe I never met you cos I've not gotten over the fact that a young, promising, God-fearing, everyone-loving, diligent, inteligent, humble and kind-hearted beautiful lady like you is no more. Seriously, I really wish I had met you before you left. Ur testimonies are more than awesome. Believe me, you have been able to reach out to lots more people in death than u can imagine. My family, church and colleagues at work have all been touched by your great story and they all have moved closer to God. And for me, I've made up my mind to live everyday, every moment, every minute as if it would be my last.

I pray God comfort your parents, 'bro Ad', Sis Buks and Tuts. And May God comfort your friends and other familymembers as well. Keep resting, Kunbi, Keep resting!!!!!!!

Kunbi,

I never met you in your life time but looking at your pictures, you were not only beautiful  but was an angel from the the testimonies of your friends and acquaintainces. At moments like this, the question I keep asking to which I am yet to find an answer is : " Lord, why do bad things happen to good people?". I take comfort in the fact that you are in a better place now. Rest in peace dear Kunbi.

Kunbi, 
The reason I haven't wrote anything until now is because I was speechless. I could not fathom the fact that you were gone, and I am STILL having difficulty doing that now. I was hoping that there was something that I could do or an amount of tears that I could cry that would someway or somehow bring you back here with us, but I have now come to a sudden realization that that thought is unfortunately impossible. The memories I have with you can and will never fade, for these memories I have are the only things comforting my heart at this tragedy. Apart from the memories my sisters have already shared, I will have to  name a few also, Kunbi, do you remember how you ALWAYS wanted Tutu and I to sing to you and then you would record us and teach us how to harmonize. The last time we spoke, you still had my recording on your phone..hopefully it is still there with you and you listened to it whenever you were down or depressed. I also remember that night when you and I were bored one night so we got on skype and you introduced me to your friends. One in particular was Ugonna, you introduced me to him and told him all about me. I wonder if he remembers me still. That night was funny Kunbi. I do not know how I am still coping simply just knowing that your presence is no longer with us here on earth...but then I remember that you were a VERY strong believer and you are in a much much better place than here now. Kunbi, I love you and I will never forget you or the way you inadvertently touched my life forever. It is almost as if you were a blessing in the life of everyone that you met here on earth and I am sure you actually were. Sun Re..Rest in God's perfect peace. Goodnight cousin <3. Tears..

Love,
        Chelsea Adebiyi